My story with Polish and Poland is a story of love, and it is the story I am going to tell you about today.

In particular, I’m going to talk about how I came to learn Polish; the difference the language has made in my life; and how you can go about learning this fascinating language for yourself!

I was in Poland for the first time in 2007 while touring Europe with two friends of mine.  Our first destination was the beautiful city of Prague. After five days there, we were off to Krakow, after which we’d head for Budapest. 

To tell you the truth, I did not know what to expect from Poland. I do know, however, that I did not expect Krakow to be such a beautiful and lively city.

Unfortunately, my friends and I only had time to visit the city center, followed by Auschwitz, and then the Dwarf mine. That was all we could do during our two days there. Despite the short stay, it was quite a memorable experience; I was certain I’d come back again. 

So that’s what I did!

My Return to Poland

Four years later, in 2011, famed polyglot and friend Richard Simcott had invited me to spend a couple of days with him in Poznan, a city in western Poland. I was thrilled to join him and hang out in Poland for a while. A few days prior, Richard had made friends with Michal, a Polish polyglot who had recognized Richard off the street from his YouTube videos.

The three of us spent a lot of time together in those short few days. We had a lot of fun, and I was very happy to have more time to spend in Poland, enjoying the company of Richard and several new Polish friends. 

During my stay in Poznan, I got a better idea of the language and the country. I loved observing how Richard interacted with the Polish people he met. So much so, in fact, that upon my return to Rome, learning Polish was on my language learning priority list. 

Trying to Learn Polish through Russian

So, I bought an ASSIMIL course book—a resource which I normally use to get a solid foot into the language together with my Bidirectional Translation method. However, for this new language project, on top of using ASSIMIL, I also wanted to start speaking from the very beginning. 

I was confident this was possible because by the time I started learning Polish, I could already speak Russian. Did it help? Well, yes and no. 

Let me explain. 

Knowing a language within one family can greatly boost understanding of the mechanisms of a different language within that same family. Polish and Russian share a good deal of vocabulary, a similar syntax, and a comparable case system. In these areas, having previous knowledge of Russian was invaluable.

But make no mistake: knowing Russian does not mean that you can automatically learn and speak Polish. Far from it! 

The truth is that Russian and Polish remain two different languages. The first time I was in Krakow back in 2007, I used Russian as a substitute for Polish, especially during brief interactions in shops. Or at least I tried to! 

I can still remember the time when I attempted to use Russian to make a purchase in a bakery near Auschwitz.  The girl serving me was taken aback at first, but soon a big smile appeared on her face when she realized there was one key word she could make out from the rest: “chleb”, or bread, which happens to be almost the same as in Polish! 

So honestly, learning one Slavic language before you tackle another has its pros and cons. In that case, it is up to you to maximize the pros and minimize the cons. 

In this sense, timing is crucial: I recommend getting a VERY solid grasp in one language before using that skill to learn another, otherwise you’ll risk confusing them. 

Polish Pronunciation Problems

One thing about Polish that always fascinated me was its pronunciation. Hearing the language for the first time, it reminded me of a Slavic language mixed with a lot of the nasality of French. 

As I began to learn Polish, my experience with French nasals meant that I had an easier time learning them than most do. Where I really struggled, however, was with the consonants.

Polish is notorious for having very difficult consonants clusters—that is, groups of several consonants in a row. English has these in words like “splat”, “stripe”, “tests”, and more. 

Polish consonant clusters are even tougher. You’ve got words like:

Szczęście - Happiness 

Następstwo - Consequence

Bezwzględny - Ruthless

Those clusters are hard to read, let alone pronounce, so it took me quite a while to get comfortable with them. In fact, even today I still struggle with some tricky words now and then.

There is good news, though. Despite the mess of consonants, Polish is spoken as it is written. If you understand the Polish sound system and know how to read written Polish, then spelling is quite straightforward.

Learning to Speak Polish

Let’s move on to my favorite part of learning Polish:

Actually speaking it!

Back in 2012, I began doing Skype-based language exchanges with Joanna, a Polish girl I had met through the language learning community. She would help me with my Polish, and I would help her with her Spanish.

We did this every week. It wasn’t intense work, but I could feel my Polish improving slowly and steadily. 

My next breakthrough was in 2014. I had returned to Poznan to attend a workshop organized by my aforementioned Polish friend Michal when I was suddenly invited to be interviewed on a Polish TV program called “Pytanie na Sniadanie”. 

It was a live show, so I can remember being quite nervous. However, I managed to keep it together despite all that, and in the end the experience gave me a huge confidence boost. If I could survive a live interview in Polish, I knew I could weather anything else that the language could throw at me.

And I think that’s an important point; not just for me, but for any language learner. There are many times on the language journey when fear tells us that we should not push forward, and we should instead retreat back into our shells. In those situations, it is important to persevere, and accept the new challenge. 

You can’t become a confident speaker of Polish (or any language) without getting lots of speaking practice first, so don’t let fear hold you back. 

2016 marked my next breakthrough with speaking Polish.

I was in Warsaw this time, working with Konrad Jerzak vel Dobosz, who is a well-known Polish polyglot. We were writing a book called Jak uczyć się języków which would be released the following year.

As soon as I arrived in Warsaw, I was in incredible pain—I had developed a horrific toothache! 

I had no choice but to find the nearest dentist I could find.

Luckily, the dentist managed to solve my toothache relatively quickly. Even better, I was so impressed with the treatment I received, that I quickly decided that this random Polish dentist would become my main dentist, despite the fact that I live over a thousand kilometers away in Rome, Italy!

The best thing about this decision was that it meant that I would have to make visiting Poland a regular part of my life—if only to continue routine dental treatments!

The funny thing is, that’s exactly what I’ve done! 

I mean, I don’t visit Poland only for its superior dentistry, of course, but having regular dental visits there has meant that I’ve been fortunate to visit Poland twenty times over the last five years. And in all that time, I’ve gotten to visit many other parts of Poland as well!

All in all, Poland has now become one of my favorite places in the world. No matter the location, the weather, or the season, every experience I’ve had in Poland has ultimately left a smile on my face. 

And spending all this time in Poland made me realize how important the Polish language has become for me, as well.

This is not a language I want to know only a little bit. I want to live and breathe the Polish language and culture, and use it for the rest of my life. I want to experience all I can of Poland, its people, its traditions, and its essence. The way Poland and Polish people make me feel has created a long-lasting, concrete, burning desire to explore the language, the culture and its people that is only growing with time. 

And it is this burning desire that creates a real connection with a language.

This is what makes me continue on when things seem too challenging.

This is what makes me want to keep putting one step after the other. Even when the peak of the “Polish mountain” seems far, far away, wrapped in the clouds out in the distance.There is no going back. 

When you want why you learn, no obstacle is big enough to stop you.


So there you have it. My story of falling in love with Poland and the Polish language. 

I hope that at least, in some small way, my story has conveyed the beauty and magic of not only the Polish language, but the experience of getting to know a new language and culture.

If you haven’t considered learning Polish, I strongly recommend it. If you have, I’d like to know more about your story:

What has been YOUR experience learning Polish? And if you are Polish, how do you feel about foreigners learning Polish and experiencing Polish culture?

Written by Luca Lampariello

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  • as a person born in Poland, it was great to read your article Luca. I myself started learning Turkish after learning English, German, Italian, French, Esperanto and Russian. I’m having so much fun with a language that works completely differently.

  • Hello Luka! Thanks a lot for everything you do for the language learning community. Your story is absolutely amazing and I really enjoyed listening to it (especially since I’m Polish). I’m wishing you the best of luck on your journey to fluency. Your pronounciation is perfect and I admire you a lot.

  • Cześć Luca, My Polish story is a beautiful one and, after all these years, my motivation to one day be fluent remains strong. My best friend growing up (in the States) was Polish, although he didn’t like to speak the language. That always seemed strange to me. And although I do not have Polish blood, I spent so much time in that household that I felt (at times) more Polish than my friend. I heard the language, ate the food, celebrated holidays and name days, you name it! Then, during a summer in the late 1990s, I was able to go on a month-long trip with his family to Wrocław. We stayed at his Babcia’s house in the country and on my second day there, I met my friend’s cousin. It was love at first sight… and at the time, I didn’t even believe in it. Low and behold, she didn’t speak english. And I only knew the bad words. Luckily I had enough time and bravery to try to communicate. When I left Poland, I not only had memories that I will never forget, but a connection with a place, people and culture that is now completely unbreakable, unshakeable and now, unwavering. I am actually just starting back with Polish after many years away from it. I actually plan on putting together a YouTube channel myself to record, track my progress and give out tips and tricks that have helped me. One day I’ll get into much more detail with my Polish story..but I’ll save that for another time. Maybe when we meet in person one day.

  • Wow, this was a great website for me. I do not speak Polish, but would like to. My wife is Polish and she wanted our children to speak Polish. My wife though had difficulty with actually working to achieve her desired future of Polish/bilingual children, so her idea was when our children were born she would speak to them in Polish and myself in English (American English) and they would instinctively learn both languages without any effort on her part.

    Unfortunately, our first born in 2007 was Autistic and didn’t speak at all until age 3 when he started using just a few single words. We didn’t realize he was Autistic, but with this delay in speech, I convinced my wife we should concentrate on only one language until he could speak. He eventually spoke English well for his age and could read before preschool, but never learned Polish. Now, he is 17, and realizes he is half Polish and has Autistic tantrums as he demands that he should be able to speak Polish without an accent. he believes this would be impossible to do at this age. He also has ADHD and also refuses to apply himself with gradual effort to achieve his goals. At this point, I would like very much for him to have some project for him to learn to speak Polish (not curse words, he knows them too well already), so I will seek out ways that might help to achieve this.

    I personally have lived in Poznan and Krakow, which is where I met my wife. We have friends in Poland and unfortunately only infrequently visit there. I found this website looking for in person courses that my son might enter to further this. Thanks for this story, I find it fascinating and inspiring.

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